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How To Keep Natural Hair When Everyone In Your Circle Is Relaxed

How to love natural hair without much support from your inner circle? It can be daunting but we share how you can without those next to you feeling it.

Sorry, but not EVERYONE is ready to love natural hair nor going to be happy you are going natural. It may seem like the entire world of black women are embracing their natural roots, but in reality we are still in the minority. I often forget about this as most of my family is now natural and I’ve been natural for over 11 years. Despite my rose-colored glasses I have to remind myself not everyone is on the natural hair bandwagon and far too many women are still feeling the weight of judgement by their relaxed counterparts.

Must We Love Natural Hair All The Time?

Despite the negativity one may face from work, friends and even family, there are amazing ways to celebrate and enjoy your natural hair and stay on a positive path. Here are six ways to celebrate your journey and to keep natural hair.

Reward your hair (and yourself) at milestones

There is nothing like rewards to keep us going. When you advance to natural hair milestones like six months natural, a year or when it is time to BC, reward yourself with pampering that make you feel special.  Whether it be a mani/pedi or buying that plush hair product you’ve been eyeing; give yourself the treat of encouragement for staying the course on living a better life for your hair.

Stop to enjoy the journey

There are so many steps, how-to’s, products, advice and opinions about going natural that it can clutter your mind and turn your hair into a chore. We don’t want that and neither should you. Sometimes you just need to step back, reconnect with your purpose and remember why you took this journey in the first place. Close your mind to the naysayers, skeptics, and those who judge, and just enjoy your new path to healthier hair. Turn off the noise and stay focused on you.

How to love natural hair without much support from your inner circle? It can be daunting but we share how you can without those next to you feeling it.

Share your love

The is the world of the selfie and they really do make you feel good. I say ham it up and take some selfies of your natural tresses. Share on IG (used tag #naturalhairforbeginners for feature), Facebook and twitter or just keep them to yourself and admire your gorgeous mane.  Love your hair and share that love and watch how lovely you feel about your hair.

Ignore the hate

There are overzealous naturals just like there are overzealous relaxed haired women. They love to profess their dislike on what others may be doing differently from them. Ignore them and yes, even your friends and family too. Steer clear of conversations that lead to battles on which path is better as there really is no right or wrong path to take because there are scores of women who have healthy hair relaxed or natural.

Now, no one says to allow others to berate you and your choices so if it gets disrespectful or unbearable let them know you are not here for them and their ugliness. They need to do them and you need to do you.

How to love natural hair without much support from your inner circle? It can be daunting but we share how you can without those next to you feeling it.

Connect with other naturals

This will be one of the best ways to celebrate going natural because other newbies are just as excited about it as you are. From blogs (like this one) to vlogs to magazines, you are surrounded by women embracing their natural hair and their positivity is infectious!

Learning To Love Your Hair & Master Natural Hair Care

Meetup.com is full of natural hair groups around the country you cannot go one week without hearing about a natural hair meetup piratically around the globe. Facebook has hundreds of natural hair groups like Natural Hair and meetups that create a safe space to ask questions and to share. They will solidify your desire to keep going and the women in there are amazing and they also love natural hair.

Remind yourself why you went natural

It wasn’t for your friend or family or even your job. It was for you and you just need to remember that and remember it often! We put ourselves on the back burner too often so apologetically stand firm on your choice and revel in the knowledge that you are doing what’s best for you and that is more than OK.

Going natural is one of the best journeys I have ever taken and I want that to be the same for you. Celebrate your path, enjoy the lessons and new ways of caring for your hair and remember to love you and your lovely natural hair.

Sabrina

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2 Comments

  1. April 23, 2019 / 12:29 pm

    All my friends are natural so it makes it easy for me to stay relaxer free. Now if only I could go heat free

  2. Sashé
    April 24, 2019 / 5:50 pm

    Great tips!! We are both natural but usually resort to protective styles due to time and lack of skill lol.

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